24 Oct
24Oct

Technology, in all its forms, was supposed to enhance our lives. It promised us freedom, efficiency, and connection. Yet, beneath these promises lies a growing dependency that is eroding our mental strength, creativity, and emotional well being. What was meant to serve us now masters us, and the worst part is, many of us don't even realise it.

It's time to go deeper. Technology is not just stealing our time and focus, it's masking our struggles, numbing our emotions, and weakening our ability to live authentically. This is the true crisis. If we don't awaken to this reality, we risk becoming prisoners of a system we built with our hands, a system that feeds on our weaknesses and leaves us spiritually hollow.

Technology as a Crutch: Numbing the Pain

Many of us unconsciously use technology to mask our inner struggles. Phones, social media, and entertainment have become the new forms of escapism. Whether we're aware of it or not, we often turn to our devices not out of necessity but as a way to cope with emotions we don't want to face.

  • Social Anxiety and Avoidance: How often do we pick up our phones in awkward situations, scrolling mindlessly to avoid social discomfort? Instead of learning to be present and at ease with ourselves and others, we use technology as a shield.
  • Numbing Pain with Endless Distractions: Rather than confronting our insecurities, loneliness, or fears, we binge watch shows, scroll through social feeds, or drown ourselves in online content. These distractions may soothe us temporarily, but they prevent us from healing the deeper wounds within.
  • Comparison and Valuation: Social media exploits our desire for acceptance, triggering constant comparison. We chase likes and followers, equating them with self-worth, leaving us more anxious and disconnected from our authentic selves.


The irony is that while technology offers these escapes, it keeps us trapped in cycles of avoidance and dependency, stunting our emotional growth. Until we awaken to this, we remain prisoners to our screens, mistaking numbness for relief.

The Cognitive Drain: How Technology Weakens Our Minds

Beyond the emotional impact, technology is reshaping how our brains function and not for the better. The more we rely on devices for thinking, remembering, and decision making, the less we exercise our own mental faculties.

  • Shortened Attention Spans: Algorithms are designed to keep us hooked with short, bite-sized content. We hop from one piece of information to another, losing the ability to focus deeply or engage in sustained thought.
  • Dependency on External Solutions: Search engines and apps make everything accessible, but at a cost. We lose our ability to problem-solve and think critically, relying on technology to do the heavy lifting for us. Over time, this erodes our confidence in our own intellect.
  • Fragmented Thinking: The constant notifications and multitasking fragment our attention, leaving us mentally scattered. We struggle to stay present, losing the ability to sit quietly with our thoughts. This mental clutter leaves us exhausted, even when we haven't accomplished much.

Our minds, once powerful tools for creativity and exploration, are being hijacked by technology, leaving us passive consumers of information instead of active creators of meaning.

The Illusion of Connection: Digital Relationships vs. Real Connection

Technology has promised us connection, yet it often delivers the opposite, a shallow, filtered version of relationships that leaves us lonelier than before.

  • Superficial interactions: Social media allows us to present curated versions of ourselves, creating connections based on appearances and approval, not authenticity.
  • Addiction to Validation: Platforms are designed to keep us chasing likes, shares, and comments. This constant need for validation creates anxiety, as we become more concerned with how others perceive us than with who we truly are.
  • Isolation in a Crowded Digital World: Despite being connected to thousands of people online, many of us feel isolated. The deep, meaningful relationships that nourish us emotionally require presence and vulnerability, the things technology cannot provide.

We find ourselves trapped in a paradox: the more we engage with digital relationships, the more disconnected we feel from real ones. Until we awaken, we remain caught in a loop of surface-level interactions, craving connection but never truly finding it.


Technology's Theft of Time: How We Lose the Present Moment

Perhaps the greatest theft technology commits is the theft of our time, time that could be spent cultivating inner peace, pursuing our purpose, and connecting with others. Instead, we spend hours scrolling, watching, and engaging with content that leaves us empty.

  • A Constant State of Busyness: Technology keeps us "always on," blurring the boundaries between work and rest. We are exhausted, but we don't know how to stop.
  • The Illusion of Productivity: Many of us mistakes busyness for progress. We feel productive checking emails, responding to messages, and engaging online, but we often have little to show for it at the end of the day.
  • Time Lost Forever: The minutes we spend scrolling, the hours spent binge watching are moments gone forever, leaving us nothing but regret. Technology seduces us into wasting the time we could use to awaken to our true selves.

 The tragedy is that we often don't realise how much time we've lost until it's too late. And by then, the inner kingdom we were meant to cultivate lies neglected, buried beneath the noise of the digital world.

The Call to Awaken: Reclaiming Our Power and Purposes

The answer to this crisis lies within each of us. The time to awaken is now. We must reclaim our minds, our emotions, and our time from the grip of technology and reconnect with the inner kingdom, the place where our true power resides.

Here's how we begin:


  1. Recognize the Patterns: Pay attention to when and why you reach for your phone or other devices. Are you masking discomfort? Avoiding a difficult conversation? Numbing yourself? Must you know that awareness is the first step to breaking free.
  2. Create Intentional Time Away from Screens: Set boundaries around your technology use. Spend time reflecting, meditating, or simply being present with yourself and others.
  3. Rebuild Mental Strength: Challenge yourself to think deeply and solve problems without relying on technology. Read books, engage in meaningful conversations, and allow your mind to wander and explore.
  4. Pursue Authentic Connections: Make time for real conversations, free from the distractions of technology. Build relationships based on trust, presence, and vulnerability.
  5. Reclaim Your Time: Treat your time as sacred. Spend it intentionally, on things that align with your values and purpose.

The goal is not to reject technology, but to use it as a tool, without becoming enslaved by it. When we reclaim our inner power, technology no longer controls us, we control it.

Conclusion: Awaken Before It's Too Late

Technology has stolen much from us, our focus, creativity, emotional well being, and time. But it's not too late to reclaim what's been lost. The key lies in awakening to the truth: everything we are searching for peace, purpose, connection has been within us all along.

If we fail to awaken, we risk becoming prisoners of our own creation, just as God once regretted the corruption of His world. But if we awaken now, we can break free from the matrix of dependence and live from a place of purpose, authenticity, and freedom.

The revolution begins with the decision to awaken. Reclaim your mind, your emotions, and your time because the future of your soul depends on it. The time to act is now. Will you answer the call?



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